Good Morning World!
You know, as I begin to write this I find myself wondering about who reads it and if I am making any impact? I mean, who am I? I am just one of the hundreds of thousands of bloggers out there. I blog about my business, passion, dreams, family, youth sports, challenges, entrepreneurism, philanthropy, homeless, those in need and more. I guess what I have realized is that if my blog is read by even one person who appreciates it, then I suppose that is all that counts right?
So today I wake up thinking about my family, my children and the responsibility and blessings it is to be their dad. I have a duty to be a role model to them. To lead by example with hard work, smart choices and supporting them in all that they do as they grow. I have to tell you! being a Dad is the best gift in the world yet it is by the far the hardest and most difficult gift as well. What do I mean? Every move I make reflects their life and they are watching and learning from their Dad and I have made my share of mistakes and wrong choices along the way, that is for sure!
I have always owned my mistakes with them so they see that I take responsibility and if they can learn to do the same then I suppose that is a good thing! I watched a show last night and on the show, the Dad asked his little girl who is 12 years old, in reference to a life and career choice he is faced with…… he said ” sweety, what should I do?” and she said, “Dad, do whatever you want, I will love you no matter what” and he later stated to himself, “Time is ticking by so fast and I have to make the right decision because one day she may not love me no matter what”!
That hit home with me and made such an immediate impact on me! wow, t.v. making an impact on my life in such a profound way! You see, I am faced with a decision in my own life right now that I am struggling with and hearing that last night on t.v. was an awakening of sorts for me. This decision will have an impact on not just my life but more importantly my children!
Parenting 101 is a tough class however the unconditional love I have for my children and that they have for me is the greatest reward and this is my focus. I am not where I want to be in my life right now and the decision I have to make will be for the best no matter what! This I do believe and my gut is what I have to trust.
My children are 22, 17, 13 and 12 and I cannot believe how fast they are growing. They are what fuels my energy and that is pretty powerful! I embrace this energy and realize I would not be the person I am today without it.
So to my children Tiffany, Samantha, Curtis and Madison, I love you with all I have and all of who I am. You inspire me, you drive me, you energize me, you help me stay grounded! Thank you for being my children! I am blessed beyond words and explanation to have you in my life! I love you!
So as I move forward I know I will reach my goals and make the right choices….as long as I keep their needs first and right in front of me!
I appreciate those who read my blog and I invite feedback as always.
Have a wonderful day everyone! Be kind to each other and lets make our world a little bit better everyday!
Yours Truly,
Joe Drexler
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